Recently I text a friend of mine. Well, I don’t use the word friend loosely so I don’t know exactly where to categorize her. I text her “Hi, How are you guys doing? She text back “Hey, We are doing good!” I was a little taken back that she didn’t respond back with “How are you guys doing?” Maybe because that’s how I always respond when someone asks me that question. I have 4 people who I can call friends. One being my sister, my brother and the other two are not related. These are the people who text me often which doesn’t have to be every week but enough to let me know that they are thinking of me. They are the ones that I know I can count on. Probably the only four people reading my blog! But, that’s why they are my friends they are my number one supporters. So I’m going to name this person Amy. I will explain a little of Amy and I’s relationship. I have known Amy for about around 5 years now. Her family and mine attend each others kids parties and hang out every so often. Its been a while since we have all hung out together though. We have so much fun when our families are together. We laugh and joke and I don’t want the fun to end. But, I have never felt a connection with her personally. There is this wall up that we haven’t been able to break down. Some of the issues that I have had are whenever we go to their house for a party she doesn’t talk to me. She will greet me when I arrive but after that not much is said. She will talk to whoever that she sees on a regular basis. I don’t expect her to hold my hand and be by my side the whole time. I personally try to spread my time out equally when I have guest over. I’m a person who wants everyone to feel welcome and I try my best not to hurt anyone’s feelings. If I ever have I promise it was not intentionally. I’ll text her Happy Birthday and like her pictures on Facebook, Instagram, etc. But, I have never received a text from her on my birthday, granted she does tell me on Facebook. But, to me that really doesn’t count. I say happy Birthday to friends on Facebook who are exactly that Facebook friends! I don’t have their phone number, or have seen them in years heck some of them I don’t even know! This reminds me of the movie Vacation that we watched this weekend. Regina Hall had her phone and was on her Facebook page and was showing Christina Applegate pictures that she had posted of her family. Christina was like yes, I saw that its nice. Regina says “you say you like it but you didn’t hit like on this one, this one, this one.” So that night Christina is in bed on Facebook going back and liking all the pictures. Regina is basically saying your suppose to be my friend but yet you can’t like my pictures??? Maybe I said something to Amy that made her mad. Maybe she just doesn’t like me. Maybe I’m just overly sensitive. There are a lot of maybe’s that it could be. So my question to my readers (all four of you!) What do I do? Should I sit down and talk with her? Do I just leave things as they are? Do I just cut off all ties with her? Or, am I just being too sensitive?